Don’t underestimate the power of these phrases. Jangan meremehkan kekuatan kalimat ini. Happy couples regularly say “I love you,” but those three little words alone aren’t enough to keep the spark alive through the ups and downs of a long marriage. Pasangan yang bahagia seringkali mengucapkan “aku cinta kamu” atau “aku saying kamu”. Tapi kalimat ini saja tidak cukup untuk membuat pernikahan langgeng. To that end, we asked relationship experts to tell us the most important phrases husbands and wives can say to each other. Read them below: 1. “How can I help you?” “People married for a half-century or more tell us to avoid the temptation to step in and try to solve your partner’s problems. Stop thinking of yourself as the ‘white knight’ who can fix everything. The key is to really listen to your partner and learn if he or she wants help – or just to be listened to. ‘I’m there for you’ is more effective than ‘Here’s what you should do.’” — Karl A...