TAMARA BUDIMAN

In the comment section below, write a list of “10 Things I Love About Myself/10 Things That Are Great About Me.” (Which means YOU, right. Not me. It’s 10 things you love about yourself!) If you do it once, I'll follow you back on this blog.. If you do it three times in a row, I'll give you shoutout on my twitter @tamarabudiman Just post your list of 10 things below in the comment section of the blog. Then you come back here EVERY day for 3 days and post it again, and again, and again. And you see and celebrate all the amazing beautiful things other people are celebrating about themselves. It’s about doing what it takes to make the world a better place. It’s about fair exchange and having the courage to love ourselves in spite of the reasons we tell ourselves to do otherwise. So, that’s the deal! So go on! Tell me 10 things you love about yourself and let the games begin!!

We spend so much time waiting to be loved, hoping love will find us, searching, yearning for that special love. Feeling empty and lost without it. Wanting someone to give us love and fill us up. Unfortunately, that’s not usually how life works. Loving yourself is mainly having self-respect which is the only dependable way to create love in your own life to share with others. When you expect love from an external source, and someone or something does not fulfill your void and fantasies, then you will feel worse than before. To be able to be loved, you must love and respect yourself as much as you do others. How to Love Yourself 1. Treat others with love and respect. Bringing joy to other peoples' lives will help you find joy in your own. In addition, those that you treat well will likely repay you with the same kindness. Gradually you will start to feel your worth through the smiles of gratitude. 2. Create goodwill and thankfulness by practicing random deeds of kindness by sha...

Personal Grooming is Important Good hygiene is a must . Make sure to bathe and groom yourself regularly. When applying deodorant or cologne, don't use a lot. Some girls may not like the smell and if you reek of it they're not going to be pleased. Also, make sure you don't use too much hair gel (it's sticky and goes rock hard after a while). Pay attention to how you look . Wear clothes that fit your body well, eliminate flashy clothing and avoid fashion "faux pas" (i.e. baseball hats cocked slightly to the side). A simpler wardrobe will keep the emphasis on you, n ot your clothes, which will change your outlook. Get regular haircuts. Be Polite A true gentleman is polite to everyone, in action and words . Always be aware of how you can help people. Wait an extra few seconds to hold the door for the person behind you. Offer to help an old or pregnant person get their grocery bags to the car. You don't have to be paranoid or risk killing yourself (i.e if y...