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BEING A MOM



Being a Mom has taught me a lot of things, at first I underestimate everything because I have been taking care of my brothers and sisters, we are 5. Which is why I think I would be able to handle it and bla bla bla. To be honest my first week, I was in chaos, struggling with my sleepless night, and my baby who keep on crying the whole time, and since its new I don’t understand yet what he wants/needs. I have been in a situation where I hold him, and we both cry together. LOL.

I started to get it back together on my second week, I start to listen and pay attention on what he wants/needs. But to be honest on my first week, I was crying every morning and feel miserable. I don’t even want to look at my face on mirror because I felt that I would look so ugly.

You know what? I have the best teacher, she is my Grandma. She said, “to have a baby, is not you shape the baby, but the baby will shape you on how to be a parent”. I was burst in tears, and I know she is right.

I’m not a single mother, I have a husband, but he was at work for 12 hours a day. So basically, I AM A SINGLE MOM for the rest of 12 hours, and I mean totally alone in the house without anyone to help me, no babysitter or maid at all. On the 4th week I learn fast to keep it together, here’s my motto:
1.       House must be clean, clean environment important for the baby.
2.       Laundry must be washed everyday, or at least every two days.
3.       When baby cry, listen carefully if he just want attention, I will not hold him, just talk with him, while doing my chores.
And I managed it everyday until now. I’m also grateful because GOD help me and gave me strength every single day. Whenever I feel  unable to go through or want to give up. HE restore my strength.

Thank You God.
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