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There are so so many good days around here. So many smiles, perfect moments, experiences as a mother I wouldn't trade for anything. There are also times where I feel the days begin to blur into the next, where I'm deep in the trenches of motherhood, deep in the tediousness of each and every need. Work and other projects are so exciting and exhausting at the same time. One million things (it seems) pulling me in one million different directions and some days it's hard for me to handle it all emotionally... My anxiety to have everything perfect and in-line, when sometimes it is out of my control, can be tough.
Begitu banyak hari-hari yang menyenangkan belakangan ini. Rasanya menjalani hidup bersama Tuhan itu membuat segala sesuatunya menjadi indah dan mudah. Terimakasih Tuhan.





This is all very vague. But I'm sure so many of you know the feeling of anxiety and being completely overwhelmed. And I just want to share that it's okay! And you're okay! We are so strong as women, so many of us wear 100 hats and have our plates full to the brim. And sometimes that comes with a price. Don't be ashamed to talk to your spouse, your mom, sister, a doctor. You're not alone! Do what it takes to feel better for yourself and your family. I recently did and I can say I am feeling so much better. These days of motherhood are too precious to be feeling anything but joy, peace and love.
Terkadang kalau merasa sedang tidak bahagia, jangan ragu untuk cerita dengan teman, ibu atau saudara. Anda tidak sendirian! Lakukan hal-hal yang membuat diri Anda menjadi bahagia. Supaya bisa berbagi juga sama keluarga. Hari-hari menjadi ibu itu menyenangkan sekali.




Tamara Budiman

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Unknown said…
Thanks bit 😘😘😘

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